EFT Tapping for Abundance in Relationships and Love
For a long time, I struggled to understand why love and healthy relationships always felt so far away from me. Looking back, I see that it wasn’t about other people alone, it was about the blocks I carried within me.
In my experience, everyone who fails to receive abundance in love and relationships usually has deep reasons behind it. For me, it started with broken relationships in my own family.
I had difficult, painful dynamics with my parents and sibling, and because of being in a no-contact setup, it was very hard for me to trust anyone.
When the people closest to you fail to provide love and safety, you naturally build walls. And those walls don’t just disappear when you grow up, they follow you into friendships, work, and romantic life.
How Broken Relationships Create Blocks
I’ve seen (both in my own life and in others) how early wounds set the tone for everything else:
- A broken relationship with parents makes you question if you’re truly lovable or deserving.
- Sibling conflicts or betrayals can leave you wary of trusting anyone too deeply.
- Toxic friendships or romantic heartbreaks can close your heart, making you fear that being vulnerable always ends in pain.
These experiences slowly form limiting beliefs:
- “Love isn’t safe.”
- “People always leave.”
- “I’ll only be accepted if I behave a certain way.”
When these beliefs sit in your subconscious, no matter how much you want love and connection, it feels like abundance in relationships is always slipping through your fingers.
What I Realized About Abundance in Love
After years of trying to “fix” things, I realized that finding abundance in relationships isn’t about controlling others or finding perfect people. It’s about something much simpler but harder:
- Accepting people the way they are.
- Not holding onto negative thoughts about them or about yourself.
That shift in perspective made all the difference. When I stopped expecting people to change, I stopped feeling let down constantly. When I released the bitterness and negative thinking, I noticed that my energy shifted and suddenly, relationships started feeling lighter, more natural.
Where EFT Tapping for Abundance in Relationships and Love comes in!
EFT Tapping became my tool for actually making these shifts possible. Because let’s be honest: it’s one thing to say “I’ll accept people as they are,” but when old hurts keep replaying in your body and mind, it feels impossible.
With EFT, I could sit with specific memories like arguments with my parents, betrayals by friends, or moments of abandonment and tap through the emotions they brought up. I tapped on:
- The anger and resentment I held.
- The grief of what I didn’t receive as a child.
- The fear of being hurt again if I trusted someone new.
Bit by bit, tapping helped me release the charge of those experiences. Instead of my nervous system reacting with fear or distrust every time I got close to someone, I felt calmer and more open.
An Example From My Healing
When I thought about my broken relationship with my parents, it used to bring up intense feelings sadness, anger, and even shame. Through EFT, I tapped on statements like:
- “Even though my parents couldn’t love me the way I needed, I deeply and completely accept myself.”
- “Even though I felt abandoned, I choose to release this pain now.”
- “I am open to receiving love in new and healthy ways.”
At first, the pain felt endless. But with consistent tapping, something shifted. I realized their actions were never about my worth. And that realization allowed me to stop repeating the same painful patterns in other relationships.
Moving From Pain to Abundance
What tapping showed me is that abundance in love and relationships isn’t about forcing people to behave differently. It’s about:
- Letting go of the past.
- Forgiving not to excuse, but to free myself.
- Staying open without the weight of old baggage.
Now, instead of closing off, I allow myself to experience connection as it comes. That doesn’t mean everyone will stay, or that relationships will be perfect but it does mean I no longer sabotage myself with distrust, bitterness, or fear.
How You Can Use EFT
If you’re carrying similar wounds, here’s what you can do:
- Pick a memory or emotion. Maybe it’s a breakup, a fight with a parent, or a time you felt betrayed.
- Rate the intensity. On a scale of 0–10, how strong is the emotion right now?
- Tap through the points while voicing your feelings honestly:
- “This hurt.”
- “This betrayal.”
- “This fear of opening up again.”
- Keep tapping until the emotion feels lighter.
- Reframe the belief with gentle affirmations:
- “I survived that pain.”
- “I am safe now.”
- “I am open to receiving love and abundance.”
Final Thoughts
From my experience, EFT has been one of the most powerful tools in creating abundance in relationships. It gave me a way to move through the pain of broken family ties, toxic friendships, and even romantic setbacks.
And I’ve learned this: abundance in love isn’t about having dozens of perfect relationships. It’s about being open, free from bitterness, and willing to see people for who they are without the baggage of the past clouding your vision.
When you release the old pain, abundance naturally flows in.
If you are looking for help with this then check out my one on one sessions where I have helped so many people receive love in their life again.
Disclaimer: The content on this page is for educational and informational purposes only. EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) is not a substitute for medical, psychological, or psychiatric treatment. Please consult a licensed professional for any medical or mental health concerns.
