How I use EFT tapping to deal with Work Stress
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Work stress is something most of us accept as “normal,” but it doesn’t have to control our lives. For years, I thought stress was just the price of working hard, until I realized that the real problem wasn’t just the deadlines or the endless to-do lists.
The real problem was how I was processing my emotions around it.
There were days when I sat at my desk, completely frozen. The emails, tasks, and expectations piled up, but my energy dropped to zero. It wasn’t because I was lazy.
It was because I was weighed down by the thoughts running through my head: “I’ve failed in life.” “What if I mess this up?” “What if there are consequences I can’t handle?”
On top of that, I had this constant inner pressure to do everything in a single day. If my to-do list had 20 things and I only finished 15, I’d label the whole day a failure.
This cycle of pressure, exhaustion, and disappointment left me more stressed than the actual work itself.
EFT tapping changed that for me. It gave me a tool that didn’t just “manage” stress in a superficial way but actually helped me release it at its roots. In this post, I’ll share how I use EFT to deal with work stress, step by step.
Why Work Stress Feels So Heavy
Before we get into EFT, it helps to understand why stress feels so overwhelming in the first place.
- Stress isn’t just mental, it’s physical. When you feel stressed, your nervous system goes into fight-or-flight mode.
Your body thinks you’re under attack, so your heart races, your muscles tighten, and your brain floods with anxious thoughts. That’s why even small tasks feel huge when you’re already stressed. - Old wounds make stress worse. Current stress often links back to past experiences. For me, I realized that a lot of my stress at work came from childhood, the fear of being judged or punished if I made mistakes.
My nervous system wasn’t just reacting to emails or deadlines; it was reacting to years of conditioning. - The pressure to be “perfect.” Work culture often celebrates productivity at any cost.
But perfectionism is exhausting. When you believe you must do everything right, every time, it’s easy to feel like you’re failing no matter how much you achieve.
Knowing these patterns helped me see that stress wasn’t just about work, it was about emotions, beliefs, and memories stored in my body. That’s exactly why EFT was such a game-changer.
Step 1: Identifying the Source of Stress
The first thing I do when I’m stressed is pause and ask: What’s really bothering me right now?
Sometimes the answer is obvious, a deadline, a presentation, or a conflict with a coworker. But more often, the stress hides a deeper fear. For me, it was fear of failure and fear of consequences.
I worried that making one wrong move meant everything would collapse.
EFT works best when you’re specific. So instead of saying, “I’m stressed,” I tap on:
“Even though I feel this pressure because I’m scared of failing, I accept how I feel.”
That acknowledgment is powerful. It’s like shining a light on what’s really going on beneath the surface.
Step 2: Tackling the “I Have to Do It All” Belief
Another big stress trigger was my belief that I had to finish everything in one day. The irony is that the more stressed I became, the harder it was to get anything done. My energy drained, I lost focus, and tasks that should take 20 minutes stretched into hours.
When I tap, I speak directly to that belief:
“Even though I feel I must do it all right now, and it’s exhausting me, I accept where I am.”
“Even though my body is drained, I choose to allow myself space and ease.”
After a few rounds, the pressure softens. I realize I don’t have to finish everything today. I can prioritize, breathe, and give myself permission to be human. That mental shift restores my energy and clarity.
Step 3: Going Back to the Root
Often, work stress is connected to past experiences. For me, deadlines reminded me of times when I was scolded for being “too slow” or not good enough. Those memories still lived in my body, making current stress feel ten times heavier.
With EFT, I revisit those memories. For example, I might recall a school project where I was humiliated for not performing well. I rate how intense the memory feels (say, 8/10) and then tap while naming the feelings: fear, shame, sadness.
As I tap, the intensity drops. That old memory loses its grip on me. The next time I face a work challenge, my body doesn’t overreact because the emotional charge from the past is gone.
Step 4: Creating Calm and Confidence
After releasing the stress, I finish with positive choices. I’ll tap and say things like:
“I choose to trust myself with this work.”
“I don’t have to be perfect to be valuable.”
“It’s safe to take things one step at a time.”
By the end, I feel lighter, calmer, and more focused. The to-do list doesn’t feel like a mountain anymore, just a set of steps I can take at my own pace.
Why EFT Works Better Than Just “Coping”?
Traditional stress management often suggests things like deep breathing, journaling, or taking breaks. These are great, but they don’t always address the emotional root of the stress.
EFT works differently because:
- It calms the nervous system in real time.
- It allows you to acknowledge emotions without being overwhelmed.
- It helps clear old memories and beliefs that fuel current stress.
- It shifts your perspective from fear and pressure to trust and clarity.
This is why a 10-minute tapping session can sometimes bring more relief than an entire weekend of “rest.”
My Honest Experience
I won’t pretend I never get stressed anymore, I do. But the difference now is that I don’t stay stuck. Stress doesn’t spiral into self-doubt and burnout the way it used to.
EFT has taught me that my feelings don’t have to control me. Even if I feel overwhelmed, I have a tool in my hands, literally. The act of tapping reminds me that I’m safe, that I can face challenges without collapsing under them.
And here’s something I’ve noticed: the more I practice EFT, the quicker my stress dissolves. What used to take me an hour of tapping now sometimes takes just a few minutes. It’s like training my body and mind to let go faster.
Final Thoughts
Work stress is real, but it doesn’t have to define your life. For me, EFT tapping has been more than a stress-relief technique, it’s been a way to heal old wounds, shift limiting beliefs, and step into work with more calm and confidence.
If you’ve ever felt the weight of deadlines, the fear of failing, or the pressure of never doing enough, I encourage you to try EFT. Start small: take one stressful thought, give it a number from 0–10, and tap while talking through it. Notice how your body responds.
It might feel strange at first, but keep going. The relief you’ll feel is worth it. And who knows? You may discover, like I did, that work doesn’t have to be a battlefield. With EFT, it can become a place where you show up with peace, clarity, and strength.
If you need help, I do offer one-on-one sessions EFT Tapping where my clients have seen massive shifts within just a few sessions. If this is something you think you resonate with then do check out my EFT Tapping services.
